The Nomad Christmas List

My mother asked me what I wanted for Christmas last year.  I replied, “nothing”.  Afterwards, I realized that may not have been the best response.  I wasn’t trying to be rude, but following the Christmas holidays, I was immediately traveling out of the country on vacation.  On my return, I headed off to two work assignments, in two different states.   While I love receiving gifts, it can sometimes be challenging to fit extra items in my suitcase.

So for those out there with nomadic loved ones, let me offer you some suggestions.  Though remember, for many of us, nothing is an acceptable answer, your love and support is gift enough.

  1. Give something experiential.  Tickets to a show, concert, movie or a gift card to white water raft, canoe or zipline.  Cover the costs of a language, art or cooking class.  Gift certificates to spa treatments, gym memberships or exercises classes that can be used in multiple locations.  These experiences are invaluable and are transferable in the mind or body. 
  2. Give something consumable.  Food and beverage always work!  Whether it’s a home cooked meal, Garrett’s popcorn, Grippos potato chips, Cane’s Lemonade or a well-aged Kentucky Bourbon (oh wait, that’s my list!)… But you get my point.  What does your nomad like that’s hard to find when traveling the country or the world? 
  3. Give something sentimental.  A small picture or memento that can be placed in a journal, a pin or pen that expresses hometown pride or a handwritten card that shares a little encouragement will go a long way.  It can get lonely on the road; these little things help tide us over.
  4. Give something travel related.  Your nomad may need an adapter for international travel, packing cubes, rechargeable batteries or a blanket.  A backpack, suitcase, sleep sack or sleeping bag may need to be replaced.  How can you make traveling more comfortable or efficient for your nomad?
  5. Give the gift of technology.  How does your nomad communicate or document her travels?  A new phone or camera may be helpful.  A smart watch could make communication and fitness more efficient. 
  6. Give something wearable but small.  Necklace? Friendship Bracelet? Earrings? Navel ring?  What can you give your nomad to wear that won’t take up much space or add much weight that will still remind him of you?
  7. Give the gift of travel.  How does your nomad make it from one destination to the next?  A gas card or airline, train or bus gift card may be helpful in traveling to their next stop.

For those of you up for an adventure, meet us out on the road.  It’s always lovely to see a familiar face in an unexpected place!

What Being a Nomad Means to Me

I’ve been extra nomadic over the past few months.  Since I’ve started my journey, my normal has been to be in one city for 10-14 days, at least, before traveling again.  Lately I’ve been averaging maybe 4 days in city before moving on to the next.  It has been exhilarating and exhausting!  But at the end of the day, I love it.

What being a nomad means to me…

  • Sometimes forgetting what city I’m in… I’ve woke up on more than one occasion with a cautious survey of the room to remind myself whose house or hotel I was sleeping.  I’ve forgotten where I parked, and I’ve even gotten into the wrong car.
  • Being flexible.  With the frequent travel, plans change, work schedules evolve, and flights get canceled.   Being able to adjust on the fly and adapt is necessary.
  • Learning how to pack enough, but not too much.  I travel with the same items for 4 to 12 weeks depending on my schedule.  I have to prepared for not only seasonal changes but also clinical work, recreational activities, formal events, workouts and who knows when I’ll find my way to the beach or a pool.  In addition to clothes, I need my laptop, toiletries and hair essentials (that I may not be able to find in some of the towns I find myself).
  • Being content my own company.  Honestly, I probably hang out with my friends more than most.  I’ve seen 2 of my friends who live in separate states, at least 6 times over the past 6 months.  But there are weeks that I see no one.  I am comfortable taking myself out to dinner or happy hour or just on a walk.
  • Though I’m constantly traveling, I’m not constantly on vacation.  Being mindful of my spending, eating habits and physical activity is a must to be responsible and provide some level of consistency.

How long will I live this way?  Short answer, I don’t know… Being nomadic is definitely a personal journey and not for everyone.  I’ve met a several people over the last few years who have been location independent for various amounts of time in their lives.  Some planned to be nomadic for a finite number of months or years.  Others became fatigued with the travel, some stopped to start families or for a permanent job opportunity.  We’ll see what life brings my way.  For now, my journey continues.